What is Love?!?

Nowadays the description for love is just when you fill the emotions rise inside, the flesh and all the desires. But this is not real Love. These are spontaneous healthy symptoms that you are a human being. These are more the physical elements of Love.

To love someone and to be loved from your beloved one of course you need to have these physical attractions.

But your relationship and your marriage won't live for long IF it is based only on the physical and sexual attraction.

Love means SO MUCH MORE than these. Love means, you CARE for your partner MORE than you care for yourself. It means you are LESS SELFISH. You are ABLE TO COMPROMISE.  Love is when you can PUT someone's need BEFORE YOURS.

Love is when you are FAITHFUL to your loved one, no matter how hard it is sometimes. Love is when you love someone WITHOUT ANY EXPECTATION.

You can love someone more easily, If you find your inner peace. If YOU yourself are OK with YOURSELF, and you have reconciled with your background, with your past. If you find your balance in your everyday life. When you find peace in God!

"Let Love and Faithfulness never leave you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart." /Proverbs 3:3/

After every ending there is a beginning

            Thoughts of existence

To help those people whom God brought into your life. To give hope. To be a light. Not to give up. Even though its hard sometimes. Just trust and rely on God. To forgive to those who are not giving you the job. To back out of your past. To say goodbye to your proud. You don't have to be the same as your parents were. To let it go. To forgive to those who you think are better, valuable, more beautiful than you. To have healthy thoughts. To trust in God. Don't let the enemy to turn your thoughts inside out. To be sympathizer. Don't brood over nothingness but instead start to look at the path in front of you. To look into his and her eyes and to understand what comes through them. To be patient. To learn to listen. Not just acting you care for someone, but be there and do it. To listen them, comfort them and love them. To follow the footprints of Christ.

"15 My prayer is not that you take them out of the world but that you protect them from the evil one.20 “My prayer is not for them alone. I pray also for those who will believe in me through their message, 21 that all of them may be one, Father, just as you are in me and I am in you. May they also be in us so that the world may believe that you have sent me. 22 I have given them the glory that you gave me, that they may be one as we are one— 23 I in them and you in me—so that they may be brought to complete unity. Then the world will know that you sent me and have loved them even as you have loved me." /John 17(NIV)/"

"12 Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. 13 Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. 14 And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity." /Colossians 3(NIV)/"

And for closing

Encouraging

Little bon-bons from the Bible

"Unfailing love and faithfulness cover sin; evil is avoided by fear of the Lord."

"When the king smiles, there is life; his favor refreshes like a gentle rain. How much better to get wisdom than gold, and understanding than silver!"

"Those who listen to instruction will prosper; those who trust the Lord will be happy."

"O Lord, you have examined my heart and know everything about me. You know when I sit down or stand up. You know my every thought when far away. You chart the path ahead of me and tell me where to stop and rest. Every moment you know where I am. You know what I am going to say even before I say it Lord. You both precede and follow me. You place your hand of blessing on my head."

"Unfailing love and truth have met together. Righteousness and peace have kissed! Truth springs up from the earth, and righteousness smiles down from heaven. Yes, the Lord pours down his blessings. Our land will yield its bountiful crops. Righteousness goes as a herald before him, preparing the way for his steps."

"Kings will stand speechless in his presence. For they will see what they had not previously been told about; they will understand what they had not heard about."

"Come to me with your ears wide open. Listen, for the life of your soul is at stake. I am ready to to make everlasting covenant with you. I will give you all the mercies and unfailing love that I promised to David."

"Seek the Lord while you can find him. Call on him now while he is near."

"I am overwhelmed with joy in the Lord my God! For he has dressed me with the clothing of salvation and draped me in a robe of righteousness. I am like a bridegroom in his wedding suit or a bride with her jewels."