What is Love?!?

Nowadays the description for love is just when you fill the emotions rise inside, the flesh and all the desires. But this is not real Love. These are spontaneous healthy symptoms that you are a human being. These are more the physical elements of Love.

To love someone and to be loved from your beloved one of course you need to have these physical attractions.

But your relationship and your marriage won't live for long IF it is based only on the physical and sexual attraction.

Love means SO MUCH MORE than these. Love means, you CARE for your partner MORE than you care for yourself. It means you are LESS SELFISH. You are ABLE TO COMPROMISE.  Love is when you can PUT someone's need BEFORE YOURS.

Love is when you are FAITHFUL to your loved one, no matter how hard it is sometimes. Love is when you love someone WITHOUT ANY EXPECTATION.

You can love someone more easily, If you find your inner peace. If YOU yourself are OK with YOURSELF, and you have reconciled with your background, with your past. If you find your balance in your everyday life. When you find peace in God!

"Let Love and Faithfulness never leave you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart." /Proverbs 3:3/

Fakebook

Less or more

You won't be less or more if you are not receiving enough 'likes' on facebook. It's not your real face you show there and you just rarely find your closest friends. Friends who are there for you, when you totally feel like crap.  They encouraging you, 'Hey you my friend, don't you dare give up! I've been there and I've been through but I'm here to help you to bear!

This society tries to force you and me into this materialistic impersonal World. Where you depend on whether the people like you, but mostly they just pretend they are. And until you won't brake out from your bubble world, you will waste your real deal. No offense but you should live in the real world, and make the best out from what you have! And don't say, 'yes maybe on one day, I will be ready', because man you actually living your life NOW, you have to deal with your life and your decisions, to make responsibilities and to make them right. 

To make the right steps will be just harder. It always will appear that you just scroll it in front of you. The truth is that you just have to let it go and to be brave to say 'Hey it was enough'! 

To say NO is perhaps scares you, but trust me it's worth to do.

To find yourself and find the peace beyond will not come from facebook you know.